Ups and downs.

today i had some highs and lows…..

i got offered the job that i was told i wasnt going to get. i accepted it.  ive been working the position for a week now but when it becomes official i pick up the added benefits.

I got denied the time away from the other job.   I wasnt going to officially quit until April after the tax season is over so I requested time off to handle some personal issues instead. 3 wks tops and they denied it.  So now i will be calling in and getting awol instead of them just letting me off.   I just may quit sooner.  If they cant let me go for 3 wks then let them deal when Im gone for good. f*ck ‘em!

My mom is having eye surgery, they think she has glaucoma. This is her second surgery since this summer and tonight my dad went into the ICU. He has a major drinking problem and I’m not sure if this is related.  My sister mentioned his drinking when she was telling me why he was there but I kinda zoned her out.   My dad and I aren’t really kosher with one another.  I tend to not think of him much unless a situation presents itself and I guess this is one of those situations.  I cant go to the hospital.  Maybe tomorrow I’ll muster the inclination to do so.  Maybe not.

So I’m in a good mood but I’m not, yet I will not emotionally eat. Matter of fact I dont even have an appetite.  Which might be worse.  I dont need to starve myself.

I got to dance.  It helps me relief the days stresses.  So I’m going to dance.  I havent went out dancing in 3 wks.  Its time.

Well going to take a nap, head over to my stepmom’s a little later, and then go dance dance dance for the celebration of my ups and to get the downs out of my system.

I can’t seem to climb the mountain when its become a plateau: tip of the week

By Paige Waehner, About.com Guide

 

Plateaus suck, don’t they? And they happen to the best of us. Your body will adjust to any exercise program over time, so you need to fool your body into continuing to progress by changing your program every six weeks or so. Not only should you change your cardio workouts, you should also change your strength training routines as well. This will keep your muscles confused so that they’re constantly challenged. There are many ways to change your routines including:

  • Changing the frequency (adding a day or subtracting a day of workouts)
  • Changing the intensity (adding more or less weight to your exercises, or working harder or easier on your cardio)
  • Changing the amount of time your exercising (if you usually walk for 20 minutes, try walking for 25 or 30 minutes)
  • Changing the type of activity (for strength training, changing the exercises, for cardio trying something completely new)

Keeping track of your workouts can help you determine when you need to change them. Use a calendar or a workout log and write down your workouts for six weeks. At the end of that time, sit down with your log and create a new routine by changing the elements mentioned above.

Almost everyone reaches a weight loss plateau at some point in their fitness lives. The reason is that the human body works hard to keep energy intake and output in balance. In other words, your body does not like to lose weight (not a revelation, huh?). After your initial weight loss, your progress will slow down and eventually stop even though your exercise and food intake is consistent. The bottom line is that the very efforts you make to burn more calories may eventually slow it down. Problem 1. Lowering your calories too much
Fact: It takes calories to burn calories. When you decrease your food intake, your body simply lowers its metabolic rate in response. This still allows the body to function properly, but ultimately your body requires fewer calories which creates hunger and prevents you from losing fat.

Solution:
Keep your calories slightly below your maintenance calories so that your energy and metabolism remain high. A deficit greater than 500-700 calories makes it much more difficult to maintain your lean body mass.

 

Problem 2. Loss of lean body mass
Fact: Muscle burns fat and losing muscle means burning fewer calories. Lean body mass uses five times the calories as fat mass so, if you lose it, your metabolism drops and your weight loss stops.Solution:
Make sure your exercise program is combined with a fully nourished body. You can accomplish this with a diet that creates a safe calorie deficit along with some type of multivitamin to help with any nutrient deficiencies.

Problem 3. Weight loss
What? But you thought that’s what you wanted! However, what you may have forgotten is that when you weigh less, it takes less calories to move your body. A loss of any amount of weight will lead to a reduced energy requirement.

Solution:
Make sure you start (or continue) a weight training program to help increase lean body mass, which can help compensate for the loss of calories.

Problem 4. The ‘Adaptation’ Phase Ends
When you start a new exercise program, your body responds because it is required to make numerous changes to adjust to different workloads. So, your muscles are rebuilding themselves and this consumes all kinds of calories. But, at some point your body will stop adapting to the new workload and, as a result, you burn less calories for the same activities.

Solution:
Don’t let your body get used to the exercise. Maintain your body’s adaptation period by changing the intensity, duration, frequency and/or the mode of exercise and include interval training if necessary.

Problem 5: Exercise Efficiency
The more you do something, the better you get at it. As your body becomes better at performing your exercises, it can actually use fewer calories during the exercise. Think of it this way: trained athletes often use fewer calories than untrained athletes with similar body types and workouts. So, if this describes where you are, consider yourself a trained athlete and read on!

Solution:
The solution to this is the same as for Problem 4; don’t get used to the exercise. Concentrate on more dramatic changes such as trying brand new activities. For example, if you use the treadmill for two weeks, switch to something different like the rowing machine or the bike. Don’t forget to make changes in your weight training routine as well!

Problem 6: Over-training
Just like not eating enough can lower the amount calories you burn, so can over-training. When you exercise too much, there is a point of diminishing returns when an increase in exercise energy expenditure is negated by an equal decrease in non-exercise energy expenditure. In other words, when you increase your exercise intensity, your body responds by decreasing the amount of calories you burn during the rest of your day.

Solution:
Take time to recover. If you reach exercise burnout, this is a great time to take a break for a few days, or try something gentle like yoga or a stretching routine. After you’ve rested, get back to exercise but lighten up your original routine and increase your intensity only as necessary.

7. Enhanced Physical Condition
As you get into better shape, your body is more efficient and it costs fewer calories to operate. Improved health means a lower resting metabolic rate and fewer calories are burned during normal daily activities. Part of this is because your cardio-pulmonary system is more efficient now and you have a lower resting heart rate.

Solution:
Congratulations! You’re officially in shape and healthy. Focus on that and feel good about yourself. Concentrate on changing your routine as described in Solution 5.

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Checking in and mini update.

Hey everyone just checking in I’ve been working like crazy to the point I’ve been coming home and crashing most nights, so I havent been on BS or responding to my text in a quick manner.  Sorry about that.

So I figured I would send a mass message.  I’m hanging in there (pun intended) with my hanging cross. I still havent made it to 3 minutes yet but I am close to 2 full minutes.  I figured out that its working on strengthening my posture which of course will lift the boobies.  How is everyone else who said they will try these doing with the hanging cross?  Are your arms like jelly yet.  Mine are.

I havent been able to hit the situps like I want but I am attempting them.   Sunday I could only do 21 non stop so I’ll check again this Sunday.   I tried that plank Nancy suggested and unfortunately I have to put that one on the back burner, whew!  My body couldnt handle the position long.

I have a 12 hr work day today so I know I will sleep when I get home.  Good thing is I will be hopping in and out of my truck, lifting boxes, climbing stairs and walking to and fro for about 10 of those 12 hours so I will get my workout in.  Until next time. That’s basically been my workouts for the week.  Except my days werent as long. Well gotta go.

TTYL!  Ciao’

Saggy boobies, thongs in a$$, makeup to workout, down again: time to challenge myself!

Okay is it not just me or am I the only one experiencing this?  As you all know I haven’t lost the pounds that I was expecting but I have lost inches.  As a result I’m starting to get saggy boobies.  Ugh! This is so not sexy, I’m 36 my boobies should still be perky!   I used to be part of the itty bitty titty committee prior to weight gain and after childbirth I had some sexy cha cha divas!  I like my divas I don’t want to have them hanging out at my waistline.  The problem with the weight gain was I also got wider, my bra size went from a 34 to a 38.  I want to get back to the 34 but not a the expense of losing my cup size. It started pre-baby at an A cup, during pregnancy at an I cup, after pregnancy B cup and with weight gain C cup.  I want to keep the C!!!   I feel ravishing with the C.  I may have to suck it up and drop back down to a B but I can’t let these babies droop.

I remember seeing an interview with model Naomi Campbell and they asked her did she get a boob job and she told them that she was doing this exercise that gave her a boob lift one might say.  She called it the hanging cross.  This is where she stands against a flat wall.  Her arms stretched out to the side as if she was on a cross with palms flat against the wall.  She does this for three minutes a day.  Over the years I have tried to do this on occasion but have never been able to last the full three minutes.  After about a minute you really feel the burn.  Okay so starting today I’m am going to challenge myself to do this hanging cross everyday.  Naomi claims this helped her go from a C cup to her D cup.  Lets see if it can at least get me back to perky.   And yes I already know push ups can help in this area but pushups also creates muscle and I don’t want a muscly boobie area.

Okay somebody hip me to what is going on with this.  As you all know I go to the park alot to walk.  Im not one to usually look at women’s behinds but I have been body watching unintentionally.  I’ve noticed a lot of women in the park working out in thongs!   You can clearly tell they have no buttock coverage or can see the lining of the material shape into the crack of their behinds.  So yes, I can tell its a thong.  How in the world is this comfortable? Somebody enlighten me!  I love the sexy underwear just as much as any woman but I don’t put them on when I’m trying to workout. Maybe its just me.  I can’t have material rubbing in the crack of my bum when I’m trying to get my speed walk on.  On top of the thong most of these women are fully madeup….foundation, eyeliner, mascara w/the added lashes sometimes, ruby red or high glossed lips, eyeshadow, blush, and so much perfume that you think you just walked thru the perfume section at Macy’s and everyone sprayed you at the same time.  I’m judgmental, yes I am.  Now I must say I do add some lip balm that has a slight gloss, I do have on either a scented powder, body mist or lotion on as well but I don’t come out to workout looking like I just had an extreme makeover.  I find this so comical.  Are they in the park to catch a man or is their image so fragile they can’t be scene without full rogue on.  I don’t get it.   Anyone of you do this??  Let me know, I just got to understand this.

And yes, my diabolical plan to kick the pounds in the patooty is still working.  I have consitently lost one pound a week since October’s end.  Yes another one pound down.  Woo hoo, hip hip hooray and wee-doggy!  If I can keep achieving that goal I will not only be at my mini goal by years end I will also be at my goal weight by my next birthday in June.  That would be so awesome.

So I am embarking on a couple of challenges for myself.  In addition to the hanging cross I want to get my core stronger.  So Im going to start trying to do situps regularly.  When I was in the Marines I could pump out 80 situps in less than 2 minutes plus some.  Now I can barely get ten done without being winded or in pain.  I’m going to start off first with seeing how many I can do without stopping.  I will do the weeks situp workout with my fitness ball at least 3 times a week and then on Sunday try again without the ball to see again how many I can do without stopping.  Then I’ll graduate from there.  Im possibly going to get a ticker of some sort to help me monitor it.

If anyone wants info on core exercises here’s a link I found (again right click to get the option of opening in another window/tab or it will take you away from BS. )     core exercises

I encourage everyone to find a new challenge for themselves.  Have a great week!  I’m off to go hit the park see what other interesting things I notice, do my 3 minutes of the cross or as long as I can last and later this evening start those situps.

Weight loss tips by Chris Pirillo

Just got back from my morning walk in the park and wanted to share some tips with you to help carry you forward.  Sometimes its good to know how others like us were able to lose the weight and keep it off.  Who is Chris?  I don’t know him personally but I follow peoples stories of success and thought I could share it with you all.  Chris was able to lose 30 pounds in 3 months and keep it off.  Now 30 pounds in 3 months is a lot but it can be achievable.  Whatever your goals whether its 30 pounds or 3 pounds, these tips can be useful.  I’ll only post a few of them but I’ll add the link to his entire blog.

1.  Dietary control and exercise. It’s true what they say – all you need to do is watch what you eat, and expend more energy than you consume. It’s really that simple. You can quit reading this list now, you now know everything you need to know and didn’t need to fork over $500 for the privilege of me telling you the secret of losing weight. You don’t need to read a 4,000 page book, you don’t have to buy a tape series, you don’t need to stay up late at night to watch infomercials to understand this basic premise. It’s 100% true.

2.   Change your lifestyle. If you’re calling this a “diet,” then you’re going to gain all the weight back (and more) within a few months of losing it. Diets do not work. Diets are temporary. When you change your dietary lifestyle, however, you’re changing your habits – and you’re putting yourself on track for long-term / continued success and weight maintenance. Don’t ever tell anybody you’re on a diet – ever. I’m speaking from experience, here – a reformed low-carber. Worked out well for a while, but ultimately failed because my entire lifestyle didn’t change (permanently)

10.  Identify your exercise. No exercise was created equal. You might like running, so run. You might like jogging, so jog. You might like stationary bikes, so bike stationarily. Find the one that works best for you – that isn’t too much of a chore for you to do regularly throughout the week. Don’t pick a routine that you don’t like – or you won’t want to do it, and you certainly won’t stick with it for long. I also wouldn’t recommend buying into that whole “no pain, no gain” mantra. I’ve lost weight without hurting myself, and you probably can, too.

17.    Don’t always listen to your mate. I’ve already suggested that you tell your family – but sometimes members of your family will try to dissuade you from trying to lose weight. It’s simple: they might not want you to succeed where they may have already failed, whether consciously or inadvertently. Your loss is not always their gain. Watch out for statements like: “You’ve lost enough weight.” or “I like you just the way you are.” Fact of the matter is, if YOU don’t like the way that YOU are – then YOU are going to have to do something about it, no matter what anybody says. They still love you, though (in theory)

18.  Don’t compare yourself to others. Every body is different. It stands to reason that everybody will lose weight differently. Even if you do the exact same things that I do, you won’t lose weight at the same rate. The key is in finding your triggers. Keep your goal in sight, and do whatever you have to do to meet that goal. When you start looking at someone else’s habits, you’re only going to become discouraged and quit without even realizing that it’s physically impossible to be anybody but yourself.

49.  White bread can’t jump. Did you know that white bread isn’t good for you? Oh, it’s true – just ask any diabetic. Research has shown that people who eat more refined products (like white bread) are more likely to have belly fat. Why? It’s simple: your body isn’t getting what it needs. The food industry isn’t the health industry, okay? You can’t trust that they’ve got your best interests at heart (despite all their marketing efforts). If you want the flavor of white bread, please eat the whole grain white bread instead? Sara lee makes a wonderful loaf, as I can personally attest (even though I like rye more than white or wheat). Repeat after me: whole grain white bread, whole grain white bread.

For more of Chris’ tips visit this link and feel free to add your own (right click to open in a new window or tab or it will take you away from buddyslim)

http://chris.pirillo.com/50-weight-loss-tips/

Just an update! Weight loss and food intake.

Just wanted to drop a little update.  Like I said sometimes I type strictly for my benefit.  Since my anniversary I have been staying consistent with my food intake yet my workouts have been in fluctuation…but I did lose weight both weeks.  Each time was one pound, which is good.  The weather has been nice so I’ve been able to go walking in the park despite my knee swelling again.  When I walked yesterday I went at a slower pace and it didnt bother me at all.  At this rate I will have 8 more pounds lost by the years end if I stay consistent.

I did cook my spaghetti finally this past Sunday, actually I used Rotini instead of spaghetti.  I substituted the sugar with honey like I said in my last blog and it was off the chain!  I actually like the flavor better than when I used sugar.  My daughter has eaten the leftovers every day since Sunday.  We finally ran out last night.  I did make a huge pot because my nieces and aunt were over on Sunday, normally I only cook enough for maybe one or two plates of leftovers.

I bought a new food processor a while ago for $1.99!  It was regularly $15.99 and the store had it marked down for $5.00 but when I went to the register it rang up for $1.99, I bought three and gave one to my mom and one to my sis.  Well I finally got to use that baby.  I chopped onions, oregano, peppers, basil for the Rotini all at one time in under 30 seconds.  I love this thing!  Its also a egg separator and salad mixer all in one.  For a $1.99 who can beat that!

Today I did enjoy a 7oz sirloin from Applebee’s.  They gave all veterans a free entree today.  I ate guilt free because I know the rest of my day will balance out. Thank you Applebee’s for your recognition.  So here’s to hump day and Veterans Day.

Now…I’m going to watch the V online, let my food settle and then get on my bike for 30 minutes of sweat!

Honey you’re so sweet to me!

I was just talking with Yumika about the fact that I add sugar to my spaghetti.  If its not sweet to me it just does nothing for my taste buds.  I add sweet basil but its just not enough.  I have cut back on how much sugar I use but I wanted to see what else I could go with instead of sugar.  So a friend of mine recommended I use honey instead.  I decided to make this my tip of the week.  It seems honey can be a good substitute for sugar. I just cant do the Splenda’s, or equals, the aftertaste makes me retch.  I haven’t prepared it yet, the spaghetti that is, but I use honey in my tea instead of sugar, my oatmeal, my cream of wheat and it taste good so I will prepare spaghetti this week and see how I like it.

So I did some research on honey and here’s what I found.

Benefits Of Honey

Honey is the name given to the sweet, yellowish liquid that is produced by honey bees. It has a taste that is distinctive from sugar and a nutritional value that is much higher than the latter. Honey is collected from a wide variety of flowers and forms the major source of food for the bees. It is stored in the hive of the bees and is used by them either in winters or when the food supply (flowers) is low. The bee-rearers extract the honey from the hives and thereafter, it is purified and sold in the market. Honey has been found to bestow a number of health and nutrition benefits on the users, some of which have been mentioned below. 

Nutritional Value of Honey

Given below is the amount of nutrients in 100 gm (3.5 oz) of honey: 

  • Carbohydrates - 82.4 gm
  • Sugars - 82.12 gm
  • Dietary fiber - 0.2 gm  
  • Protein - 0.3 gm
  • Water - 17.10 gm
  • Riboflavin (Vitamin B2) - 0.038 mg
  • Niacin (Vitamin B3) - 0.121 mg
  • Pantothenic Acid (Vitamin B5) - 0.068 mg
  • Vitamin B6 - 0.024 mg
  • Folate (Vitamin B9) - 2 μg
  • Vitamin C - 0.5 mg
  • Calcium - 6 mg
  • Iron - 0.42 mg
  • Magnesium - 2 mg 
  • Phosphorus - 4 mg
  • Potassium - 52 mg
  • Sodium - 4 mg
  • Zinc - 0.22 mg
  • Energy - 300 kcal (1270 kJ)

Health & Nutrition Benefits of Eating Honey

  • Honey has a laxative effect on the digestion system of an individual and helps provide relief from constipation.
  • Honey has been associated with treatment of persistent coughs and sore throat.
  • Consumption of honey is believed to provide relief from diarrhea and dysentery.
  • Honey has been found to have anti-bacterial properties, which seem to increase when it is diluted with water.
  • Honey helps in cleansing blood and has positive effects on the regulation of blood circulation.
  • Having antiseptic properties, honey is good for treating burns, infected surgical wounds and ulcers.
  • Honey is easily digested by the most sensitive stomachs and helps kidneys and intestines function better.
  • Honey is good for improving appetite, especially in children.
  • Honey reduces the production of acid in the mouth and thus, is good for maintaining oral health.
  • Being much lower in calories, as compared to sugar, and having a very low fat content, honey is good for those trying to lose weight.
  • Honey, with properties to make the body heal faster, helps in convalescence.
  • Majority of the allergies can be treated with raw honey.
  • Taking 1 tsp of honey; mixed with juice of half lemon and added to a glass of hot water, in the morning helps reduce stomach pain.
  • When used in the form of face packs, honey helps in rejuvenating the skin and also helps reduce the appearance of wrinkles.

Honey has been found to be beneficial for those suffering from:

  • Anemia
  • Asthma
  • Baldness
  • Fatigue and exhaustion
  • Hay Fever
  • Headaches & Migraine
  • High Blood Pressure
  • Infertility
  • Insect Bites
  • Insomnia
  • Osteoporosis
  • Paralysis
  • Stress
  • Tuberculosis

The rain is letting up!

Short blog.  Mainly a memo to myself.  And if I can really keep this short I will be surprised.  Well the rain is starting to let up.  Its been raining here in St. Louis since Oct 7th everyday.  Some days all day long others just when I want to get out and do something it rained.  Normally I think the rain is relaxing and intimate but for 24 days!  Geez!  Well yesterday it stopped.  Woke up this morning and the sun is still shining.   I can even go to the park today and take a nice walk!  I so miss walking outdoors.

I take it as a sign that the rain in my sometimes dreary life is about to start letting up as well.First example I made a couple of decisions this past week that are somehow turning a new leaf.  I didnt get the job I wanted which was a bummer but it left the door open for a better positions.  The higher ups in the office was just as discouraged as me to find a contractual hiccup that prevented me from getting the job so they all had a meeting about the situation.  Well turns out they are going to help me get into a supervisor program so I can get on the same level as them.  Also my paycheck from 6 pay periods ago finally got corrected.

A few weeks ago my furnace went out in the house and I had so many estimates that told me different things were wrong with it and for different money amounts ranging from $250 to a new furnace.  I finally got disgusted and said forget fixing it I’ll use space heaters all winter.  Well with my new leaf turning I decided to pull out my Home Improvement 1-2-3 book from Home Depot that had been sitting on my bookshelf unused and as easy as making mud pie I found my problem is replacing a $25 switch.  Remove two screws literally pull off the old switch like pulling out a cellphone charger, plug in the new one replace the screws and waalaah…heat!

On top of that, I got on my scale today and that sucker moved downward!  One pound lost.  One small step is ginourmous because for the whole month of October I was struggling with what road I should take on my journey and I picked up four pounds. Now that I stepped on a new path I lost a pound again.  I haven’t done anything physically or nutritionally different but I did make a mental change and the benefit of that choice was on the scale.

What a difference a day makes.  Oh I forgot to add……I’m in a size 8 jeans!  I was a size 12-14 this time last year.  I need to get up some new pics!!!!  LOL. I knew I couldn’t keep this short.

Big Wheels Keep On Turning Proud Mary Keep on Rolling

Okay this is a new year for me as some of you already know.  Im having to make some decisions that will change how I go about my life in general. But here are just two of the most recent decisions.

1) Looking for a new job.  I hate one of my jobs.  Okay hate is strong, despise my job the only thing I do like is the paycheck.  Well I need to get that check from another employer.   This job stresses me the eff out which is not good for my physical or mental health or in dealing social situations.  I seriously wanted to ram my managers head into a glass window last week over a timesheet.  Thats not a good mindset to be in.  I was on the brink of destruction so much last week I actually had to take sick time because I was ill with angry feelings.

2)  I decided to leave the team I was part of on buddyslim.  For several reasons but to put it nicely, it just wasnt for me anymore.  So although I am not part of a specific team I am still part of the buddyslim team.  For all of you who have been there for me with kind words of encouragement, harsh words of truth and vice versa thank you and I hope we continue to support each other.

So now its time for me to really get my big wheels turning!  I am proud that I made it this far in my journey and I want to keep pushing forward.  I’m moving my weigh-ins back to Sundays.  I dont know why but it just seemed to work for me better.  I’m going to start posting my monthly measurements the last Sunday of the month.  I’ve read every single blog I’ve ever written on here and was able to identify at what points I appeared to be stronger and when I wasnt. Now I just need to reinforce the good and weed out the not so good.  I’m considering joining a gym.  Loni’s maybe.  I did enjoy being there working out together yet its across the river, lol.  I did go to one on my side of the river but it wasnt the same.

As far as the job goes, I’m making a few phone calls this morning and putting in some bids at my other job to see if I can pick up work to compensate the income of the other job I want to quit.  This will help until I can permanently work somewhere else.  Oh, for those of you who I asked to pray about the job situation for me, thank you.  Joanie did get the job I wanted you to pray about but due to some new contractual changes I didn’t get her job as expected.   Someone junior to me did but it had to do with office jurisdiction.  I was really hurt, angry, and depressed about it yesterday but today I decided it is what it is but proud Mary needs to keep on rolling!

Spring cleaning in the fall, clean your house and clear your mind!

I am one that believes the more cluttered and disorganized my house is, the more cluttered and disorganized my life is.  I am never 100% spotless in my house but when I get to 10% clean I notice a pattern of not caring about other aspects of my life.  My mental state, budget, my social development, my appearance to include maintaining my nutrition and exercise regimens are all thrown out of whack.  If my kitchen is dirty I can make that an excuse of why I dont want to cook and head for the fast food joints.  Calories calories calories.  When my bedroom is in chaos, I tend to sleep less. Aiding to stress and low energy. The moment I clear the clutter off the mattress including the laptop I sleep like a baby.  I think you are getting my point.  So I found a little article that explains the benefits of having a clean house.  Now I’m not getting rid of my refrigerator magnets nicknacks but I thought the article was interesting enough to share.

Emotional Weight Loss and Clutter
By Ronald Wayman

Clutter can be so damaging to any lifestyle. It can weigh down the mind, heart, body and soul. When a person addicted to keeping clutter is asked to clean house, they will often cringe because each item kept has a purpose, a reason, a safety feeling. Clutter is a buffer against the unknown. Clutter is a protector. But this does not have to be so. Clutter in reality is not truly safe and not truly a protector against the unknown. It just may seem so.

Excess weight on and in the body is a mirror of the clutter in most overweight individuals. I have noted that many people who have cleaned up their life start losing weight. They act out what they feel around them in their environment. And if they clean up their environment, subconsciously they are cleaning up internal sabotages to weight loss.

 

Clutter can be everywhere.

Where is the Clutter in your life?

Here are many examples:

Physically:

On the Body: excess weight
In the Body: eating too much, eating in clutter fashion (whatever is in the refrigerator goes in)
On the counter: excess papers, to do lists, magnets all over the fridge, leftovers,
In and on the refrigerator: leftovers, magnets all over the fridge, papers on top, salad dressing bottles all used and then ignored for a century, vegetables bought and then stashed away in some bin.
In the Garage or carport: boxes leftover from your last 3 moves, homework assignments kept from yours or your children’s classes, financial records and stubs from 14 years ago in a box near the other boxes of precious things.

Emotionally:

In the Heart: Feelings buried alive, worries, anxieties, frustrations, resentments about things that happened long ago but still pumping energy through the heart and body.

Mentally:

In the Mind: Beliefs of “not good enough,” not enough of anything - money, sex, love, food, etc., beliefs of “I don’t deserve” and other similar cluttering beliefs.

Spiritually:

In Soulfulness: Trying to do too much and scattering yourself with too many projects and aspirations, Letting everyone else dictate what you are to be doing, Resenting lack of control, fearing more than trusting.


Write about what physical and nutritional Clutter that could be affecting your path to weight loss in the body and clarity in the mind, heart and home.

Today I’m going to implement spring cleaning in the fall.  Not only will I be cleaning my house, I will be helping to clear my mind and housework is a great workout in itself.   Taking care of 3 birds with one stone!

Poetic Inspiration: Don’t Quit author unknown

I found this on the internet today.  I thought it was cute and so worth sharing!

Don’t Quit

When you’ve eaten too much and you can’t write it down,

And you feel like the biggest failure in town.

When you want to give up just because you gave in,

and forget all about being healthy and thin.

So What! You went over your points a bit,

It’s your next move that counts…So don’t you quit!

It’s a moment of truth, it’s an attitude change.

It’s learning the skills to get back in your range.

It’s telling yourself, “You’ve done great up till now.

You can take on this challenge and beat it somehow.”

It’s part of your journey toward reaching your goal.

You’re still gonna make it, just stay in control.

To stumble and fall is not a disgrace,

if you summon the will to get back in the race.

But, often the struggler’s, when loosing their grip,

Just throw in the towel and continue to slip.

And learn too late when the damage is done,

that the race wasn’t over…they still could have won.

Lifestyle change can be awkward and slow,

but facing each challenge will help you grow.

Success is failure turned inside out,

the silver tint in a cloud of doubt.

When you’re pushing to the brink, just refuse to submit,

If you bite it, you write it….But don’t you quit!

- Author Unknown


Day 1! It’s a new day!

I started this journey 365 days ago.  Well actually a little longer but life put my weight loss on pause for about 6 months, so when I got back on the bandwagon it was 365 days ago.  I call today Day 1 because I am putting away what I did this last 365 day cycle and put focus on what I can do to make myself healthier & happier the next 365 days.

So this is the last blog that will say that I’ve lost 10 pounds.  Because I’m starting back over from zero.  This is the last time I will say I never made that mini goal because I have new mini goals in mind.  I won’t harp on what I didn’t get accomplished.  I will work to accomplish whats in the works for today.

One year ago and now stats:

Weight was 169 lbs now I am 159, a loss of 10 pounds in one year!

Waist was 38 inches now 30 inches a loss of 8 inches!

Hips were 45 in. now 39 in. a loss of 6 inches!

Chest was 44.5 in. now 35 in.  a loss of 9.5 inches!

Thighs were 29 in. now 24.5 in.  a loss of 5 inches!

Calves were 18.5 in now 15.5 in. a loss of 3 inches!

Biceps were 14.25 in now 13.25 in. a loss of 1 inch!

Neck was 15 in.  now 13.25 a loss of 1.75 inches!

Jeans size 14-16 now size 9-10-and depending on the brand 11! had to update this I’m in a size 8 jeans!

Body Fat was 47% obese now 33% healthy range a loss of 14% body fat!

BMI was 33.1 now 31.1 lost of 2.0 body mass.

How amazing are those figures!  My weight loss could have been better.   I’ve had a lot of ups and downs this year and a lot of maintains but despite it all my nutrition choices have helped me drop off that body fat moving me from obese to a healthy range.  Now I sit at the verge of overweight and healthy 33% is the cut off. But its a mass improvement from last year.  As far as my body mass I’m still technically obese but I’m knocking at the door of success.  Just a few short weeks ago I was down to 29.7 so I know a lower number is achievable, I’ve done it once and can do it again.  This is were the actual pounds count.

All of us who are cringing at the scale, I hope you are taking your measurements too.  My progress has not been wavering even though the scale has.  I am so proud of myself.

I’m aiming for

127 weight

24.9 BMI

25% body fat

Here’s to a new year!!!!!!!

How many calories are in a fruit fly? &; Buddyslim is a catch 22 &; I’m freezing!

Let’s get right into it.  I got back from my trip on Tuesday night and I know its Friday and I’m just logging on.  Where the heck have I been?  I’ve been dreading logging onto to buddyslim.  Not because I gained 2.4 pounds, I expected to gain 4 pounds on this trip, but because Buddyslim puts me in a tense place.  Focusing on weight loss is hard and very stressful.  Anyone who says differently is lieing.  Working as hard as you can without seeing results, is stressful.  Reading blogs, comments, and messages about crazy ass topics, crazy ass diets, whining, bitching, false justification for harmful methods without being my normal blunt self and speaking my mind is stressful.  Its hard for me to contain my raw emotions or opinions and not hurt peoples feelings.  So these few days that I have been back from my trip that I didnt touch my computer for Buddyslim has been a stress free period.  Damn that feels good.  BUT BUT BUT BUT BUT….

Being on Buddyslim, competing with the team, jib jabbering with the friends I’ve made about weight loss or life in general, reading the success stories all aid in my success in this journey.  Since I have not been on Buddyslim I found that I’m not as motivated to do the workouts or eat properly.   Its like when I read all those crazy things that put me on edge it gives me the motivation to keep pushing forward the right way.  Being on this site is such a catch 22 for me.  So what do I do.  I logged in, read up on some messages and instantly I was back in the groove.  I’ll take the people not liking my bluntness!  So watch out, I’m back!

It’s cold in St. Louis, its been 45 degrees and raining (apparently since I left town Oct 7th).  Before I left I noticed my heat wasn’t working properly.  I thought maybe because it hadnt been on all year that it was just taking a while to heat the house up but when I got back from my trip still was cold in the house.  My mom ended up borrowing a space heater from a friend and slept with the oven door open.  My furnace is electric so the pilot light is not out.  When I turn on the thermostat you can hear it click on but nothing comes out but cold air.  I’ve been using this as an excuse not to work out.  Its too cold outside and too cold in the house.  I ended up buying a couple heaters myself.  Today I’m going to make an attempt to change the thermostat.  When I moved here four years ago I had this same issue.  I called the gas company and they said it wasnt the furnace.  So I went on youtube and found a video on how to change a thermostat.  My wires weren’t marked and I was changing an old 2-wire one that had been in the house since creation with a new digital one.  Once I changed it the heat worked.  I expected it to last longer than 4 years but Im hoping that it will correct the problem again.  Then I cant use the house is too cold as an excuse for not working out.  I dont have any other excuses so hopefully this will help kick me back into gear.

And I’ve been wondering….how many calories are in a fruit fly?  I mean it is a fruit, isnt it?   Well even though its cold in this house while I was gone a couple of fruit flies managed to get into the house.  I didnt know it until I was taking a large gulp from my glass of cranberry juice and noticed one trying to swim to the edge as a place the cup down.  UGGGGGGGGH!  I almost drank a fruit fly! Hopefully I hadnt already downed one.  I wouldnt even know how to log that in to my calorie count.  It may be full of protein though.  I shouldve just chalked it up and took one down.  Eww, yuck, blah blah!  No not for real.  That would have been gross!  A word of caution:  check your beverages for foreign objects before you drink.  While I was in Miami, I was sitting at my favorite restaurant and I reached for my virgin strawberry daiquiri (yes virgin I don’t drink), sitting high on the hog on the tip of my straw possibly having a grand ole’ drink himself was a housefly.  What the hay!  I didnt expect flies to be part of my weekly diet!

Poetic Inspiration: Tip of the week.

I’m thirsting to have you

like a vampire thirsts for blood

I know I cant live without you

but I struggle to let you in

I’ve become a wilted flower

Standing in the sun but my soul is dry

I try not to even muster tears

For fear of losing what I do have of you

Yet I’m starving for your existence

My quest is to absorb you greatly

Not deny myself of something so pure….

Water, I need you. 

 

 

I haven’t wrote a poem on here in so long.  That felt good.  As you all, well those of you who know me, know I am struggling to drink water.  I top off my day at 32oz for the most part.  I know that this is not enough to replenish my body and keep me healthy.   Yet for some reason I can’t seem to get past 32oz.   I used to and that’s the strange part.  I don’t know when or where I fell off wagon and ended up in this desert filled mindset but I need to get back on track with my water.

 

I found this cool little article on water and weight loss. I’m kinda a in your face person and I thought this was an in your face of describing the benefits of water.  Sometime when I post these post, they are for me.  I go back over my own blogs just to keep myself in check. But I hope someone finds some info in these words that can help them as well.

 

Why Drinking Water Really is the Key to Weight Loss

by Maia Appleby

Don’t roll your eyes! The potion for losing that excess body fat is all around you. It covers two thirds of the planet. If you eat right and exercise at the intensity, frequency and duration proper for you, but still can’t get rid of a little paunch here and there, you’re probably just not drinking enough water.

No need to get defensive. You’re actually quite normal. Most people don’t drink enough water. Most people are also carrying around a few more pounds than they would be if they did drink enough water. If you can’t seem to get that weight off, try drowning your sorrows in nature’s magical weight-loss mineral. It works, and here’s why:

“What on Earth is ‘metabolism’, anyway?” People use the term all the time, but ask them what it means and you’ll get all kinds of answers. Merriam Webster defines it as, “The process by which a substance is handled in the body.” A little vague, but that’s really all it means.

There are many forms of metabolism going on in your body right now, but the one everyone is talking about it the metabolism of fat. This is actually something that the liver does when it converts stored fat to energy. The liver has other functions, but this is one of its main jobs.

Unfortunately, another of the liver’s duties is to pick up the slack for the kidneys, which need plenty of water to work properly. If the kidneys are water-deprived, the liver has to do their work along with its own, lowering its total productivity. It then can’t metabolize fat as quickly or efficiently as it could when the kidneys were pulling their own weight. If you allow this to happen, not only are you being unfair to your liver, but you’re also setting yourself up to store fat.

“I’ve tried it and I couldn’t stand it!” The problem is that, though many decide to increase their water intake, very few stick with it. It’s understandable. During the first few days of drinking more water than your body is accustomed to, you’re running to the bathroom constantly. This can be very discouraging, and it can certainly interfere with an otherwise normal day at work. It seems that the water is coming out just as fast as it’s going in, and many people decide that their new hydration habit is fruitless.

Do take heed , though. What is really happening is that your body is flushing itself of the water it has been storing throughout all those years of “survival mode”. It takes a while, but this is a beautiful thing happening to you. As you continue to give your body all the water it could ask for, it gets rid of what it doesn’t need. It gets rid of the water it was holding onto in your ankles and your hips and thighs, maybe even around your belly. You are excreting much more than you realize. Your body figures it doesn’t need to save these stores anymore; it’s trusting that the water will keep coming, and if it does, eventually, the flushing (of both the body and the potty) will cease, allowing the human to return to a normal life. It’s true. This is called the “breakthrough point.”

One recent finding, as irresponsible as it may be, that caffeine increases the body’s fat-burning potential has many people loading up on coffee before going to the gym. This finding may hold some degree of truth in it, but caffeine is, in essence, a diuretic, and diuretics dehydrate. Caffeine may increase the heart rate, causing a few more calories to be burned, but this is at the expense of the muscles, which need water to function properly. This isn’t doing your heart any favors, either. It’s already working hard enough during your workout. Never mix caffeine and exercise. In fact, your best bet is to stay away from caffeine all together. It’s a big bully that pushes your friend water out of your system.

Water is the best beauty treatment. You’ve heard this since high school, and it’s true. Water will do wonders for your looks! It flushes out impurities in your skin, leaving you with a clear, glowing complexion. It also makes your skin look younger. Skin that is becoming saggy, either due to aging or weight loss, plumps up very nicely when the skin cells are hydrated.

In addition, it improves muscle tone. You can lift weights until you’re blue in the face, but if your muscles are suffering from a drought, you won’t notice a pleasant difference in your appearance. Muscles that have all the water they need contract more easily, making your workout more effective, and you’ll look much nicer than if you had flabby muscles under sagging skin.

“Eight glasses a day? Are you kidding?!” It’s really not that much. Eight 8-ounce glasses amount to about two quarts of water. This is okay for the average person, but if you’re overweight, you should drink another eight ounces for every 25 pounds of excess weight you carry. You should also up this if you live in a hot climate or exercise very intensely.

This water consumption should be spread out throughout the day. It’s not healthy at all to drink too much water at one time. Try to pick three or four times a day when you can have a big glass of water, and then sip in between. Don’t let yourself get thirsty. If you feel thirsty, you’re already becoming dehydrated. Drink when you’re not thirsty yet.

Do you think water is yucky? Drinking other fluids will certainly help hydrate your body, but the extra calories, sugar, additives and whatever else aren’t what you need. Try a slice of lemon or lime in the glass, or if you really think you hate water, try a flavored water. Just make sure you read the labels. Remember that you’re going to be consuming a lot of this fluid.

It’s probably a good idea to stop drinking water a good three hours before you go to bed. You know why.

“How cold should it be?” This is debatable. Most experts lean toward cold water, because the stomach absorbs it more quickly. There is also some evidence that cold water might enhance fat burning.On the other hand, warmer water is easier to drink in large quantities, and you might drink more of it without even realizing it. Do whatever suits you, here. Just drink it!

When you drink all the water you need, you will very quickly notice a decrease in your appetite, possibly even on the first day! If you’re serious about becoming leaner and healthier, drinking water is an absolute must. If you’re doing everything else right and still not seeing results, this might just be what’s missing.

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Day 14 of 14 day challenge: completed!

I didnt post this yesterday which was actually the last day of my challenge.   I completed it.  I feel a bit more focused than before and I came to realize some things about myself that I failed to see before. It was a good experience for me. One of the main things I have reinforced is that dieting is not an option for me.  Those 3 days restricting certain food was pure h-e-double hockey sticks!

Portion control and calorie counting along with a good exercise regimen is best for me.   I had intentions on starting another challenge but I think I will not focus on anything this week.  Just do what I feel.  Like today, I dont feel like doing anything..no walking, no chigong, you2, circuit, cardio, no meditation…nothing focused on fitness.  I will however still get a workout.  I’m cutting grass and cleaning house…these are the two things that tire me out more than actual exercise routines. For my mental…I even have a date this afternoon and a poetry event tonight.  Should be relaxing and refreshing.

Here was the 14 day challenge:


Check the boxes below to keep track of your progress.

Do the chi-gong workout.

Revisit your personal stress-reduction steps (from Day 4). If they’re working — great! If not, reevaluate and come up with a better plan.

Write down how you feel you’ve changed over the last 14 days.

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